Are you saying "help save the marriage? " Are you at the end of your wit with your spouse, but want to stay married to him or her? Do you feel frustrated because you won't do the job you need to help save the marriage?
I have a tip for you. If you want to help save the marriage, you must be the one to change. Gandhi said "You must be the change you want to see ". That's good advice for a marriage. If you put all the emphasis on wanting your spouse to change, you will lose the only chance to save the relationship.
The fact is, you can't change your spouse. He's what he is. She's what she is. Your spouse is unlikely to change because you ask them or threaten them. If they accept to change, they will not "keep ".
However, not everything is lost. If you start making the positive changes that will help the relationship survive, you will subtly influence your partner to do the same.
This doesn't mean you become a doormat. In fact, affirming your needs and satisfying your desires without your partner may be just what the marriage physician requested.
For example, if a wife staying at home is bothering her husband to earn more money when she is satisfied with her work, it is likely to increase the tension in the home. However, if you take a part-time job or find a way to earn money for the family, you can encourage your husband to earn more money as well.
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